Attachment and "Communication Issues"

Many couples experience challenges that they call “communication problems.” What I have found is that every couple describes the essence of their communication problems differently.  When a new ...
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Positive Connections and Parents

We can get into negative cycles with our children that can be hard to break. It happens so easily. Busy schedules, homework, and the normal frustrations that come with growing up can weigh on ...

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Dispelling The Myth That True Love Should Be Easy

I often hear people say things like “If it’s meant to be, marriage/sex/love should come naturally.” There are many messages in our culture that elude to this notion, from fairy tales to poetry. ...
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Making It Last

The other day, my husband and I were watching TV, the NBA Finals if I’m not mistaken, and a commercial for a new show came on. The show was called The Proposal; the tagline? “A love story in 1 ...
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Is Sexuality Fluid?

We are living in a society that is more open to things than ever before. Men are physically changing into women and women into men. Black and white answers, regarding sexuality, no longer exist ...
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Letting what is Inside, OUT & who is Outside, IN

I get deep thought inspiration from the oddest sources, I realize.  Most recently, I was watching a Sex and the City movie (the 2nd not so great one) when I zoned in on one statement made by ...

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Taking The Time To Know Yourself

Today, so many people are worried about looking a certain way or upholding a certain standard that we haven't truly gotten the opportunity to know who we are, what we like, and what makes us ...
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The Mates We Choose...

In response to a commenter on a recent blog, I’d like to explore the notion of choosing the same “bad for me” mate. 
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